i agree...

here are some quotes that i loved from an article that i found very interesting.
all of these were said by Stacy Bannerman.

"When our soldiers go to war, so do we. People forget that military families also serve. There is a terrible strain on the families."

"We're not states at war — we are a nation at war."

"We can no longer have conversations about supporting the troops not inclusive of military families."

if you read the article, they'll make sense.