reiterate...

okay so i may have rambled on too much in my "random question" post because it seems the true question was missed. so here it goes again...

does it take a "special" kind of woman to date/marry a man in the military?
and
if it does take a "special" kind of woman, then what makes a woman that kind of "special?"

hopefully this cleared things up a bit. i do plan on posting again very soon. i just have to write it first. as for now i need to get in the shower cause i'm babysitting this evening. much love to all.